Let’s see if I can keep this one short! I thought my last post would touch on what we were discussing in previous comments about trying to find a balance between growing up in one town and moving around a lot. But it didn’t really fit so I’m going to try and quickly summarize here why I think social networks are helping in that regard.
Or, rather, the Internet. Things just seem to have sped up since the inception of social networking. Actually, I’d say it’s more due to more and more sites requiring less and less technical know-how to navigate. That and the exposure each new generation has to technology. As those generations get older, the more mainstream it gets.
Which is fitting since I do think exposure is key. The Internet opens our worlds up. We can live in a tiny town in the middle of nowhere and still see the sights of the world. We can have to move every three years and still be connected to friends we knew in elementary school. We’re exposed to so much more. And we expose more and more of ourselves as well.
We make friends with people around the world via a few different websites not because it’s exciting to make new friends but because we can see that we’re all fundamentally the same. It used to be a lot easier to ignore the plights of others. But now that we’re constantly confronted with images and video and chatting with the very people who need help, it’s harder to pretend it’s not as bad as you’ve heard.
Likewise, we share celebrations of joy. Whether you love or hate the holidays, you probably commiserated with at least one person online who felt the same way last month, right? And birthdays. Ha. If you’ve ever put agreed to have your birthday listed on any site, you’re guaranteed to have least one person online waiting to greet you when the day arrives. Woe betide the person who hates birthdays but forgot to make that information private on Facebook!
Not that there aren’t negative aspects to it. But isn’t that always the way? Or is it just because I’m a big believer in yin yang? Either way, I do think it enriches our lives in new ways, exposes us to the possibilities. There are still going to be people who prefer small town life to moving from city to city. But I think that’s become much more of a choice than it was in the past.
